Friday, January 28, 2011

You think, She thought, Who confirm?

"I Love You" this 3 words that is used to frequently to express one's feeling towards another. Friends, BFF and even Couples use it so often to tell each other how much they mean to them. It has became a common phrase, thus reducing its value as a statement. I wonder if love can ever be measured nor determine. How much love is enough love? How do you know if someone loves you?

There are so many things going through my mind right now. Some claim that kids(under 25) don't know whats love, how love works and etc. Does love mean that we have to give in our all in it? My definition of love may be wrong, as this is what i perceive: To give your heart truly to the person and think of what he or she would like to have in return to give them happiness. It cannot be measured via time and money. Its a feeling that cant be altered overnight as its engraved in you. You know that you will do anything for the person given your capabilities that may vary, but ultimately, u will try your best. When i can't give the person you love what i deem as important, i feel as if i failed the person. Love shouldn't be based on other factors but the natural feeling and will only be complimented by external factors. I fear for what i see love as. A feeling that cannot be change despite any problems. I guess i'm wrong all these while.